In some ways, the film feels like an infomercial for Ken and his books, which are displayed and referenced throughout. That sexist subtext is felt in other areas, too, though you have to wonder whether that's the movie, Ken, or the 1980s setting. Ken also starts drinking heavily throughout Treya's cancer treatment, not because of her failing health, but more because he's upset that his wife's physical needs are distracting him from his work. Second, amid all of their lovey-dovey behavior, there's also an instance of domestic violence Treya, the victim, is despondent until Ken 'wants her back,' and then their relationship is good again. First, it sets up unrealistic expectations of love, including the idea that the two have a shared transcendent experience when they touch. But this filmed version doesn't connect those dots as successfully, and Treya and Ken's 'idyllic' romance has problematic aspects. It's adapted from Ken's same-named bestselling book about their experience, which has been praised for providing inspirational guidance for cancer patients and caregivers.

Parents need to know that Grace and Grit is based on the true story of the romance between New Age philosopher Ken Wilber ( Stuart Townsend) and his wife, Treya Killam Wilber ( Mena Suvari), who's diagnosed with breast cancer 10 days after their wedding. A beer is touted as being good for you.ĭid you know you can flag iffy content? Adjust limits for Drinking, Drugs & Smoking in your kid's entertainment guide. While depicted negatively, no significant consequences come from the drinking. Heavy alcohol consumption by sympathetic and aspirational male lead, portrayed as being driven to drink by his life's difficulties.

Grace and Grit by William Murphy